Gifts of wealth

A donation comes from the intersection of motivation and cost. Most of this series focuses on the motivation side. But often the secret to unlocking major gifts is on the cost side. That secret is this:

Major gifts are gifts of wealth, not disposable income.

It’s a simple distinction. But it’s powerful. Wealth is different. It’s not just a different amount. It’s a different category. It has a different origin. It triggers a different mindset.

Wealth is not income

Understanding gifts of wealth starts by understanding wealth. Wealth doesn’t come from a paycheck. Wealth comes from owning assets that go up in value.

Of course, the media is fascinated by people with large paychecks. Athletes and celebrities make great story characters. But they rarely build wealth. In fact, they commonly go bankrupt.113

Wealth is appreciated assets

Wealth comes from owning assets that go up in value. People buy assets with inheritance,114 borrowings, or savings from income. People buy assets that go up in value by,

  1. Picking the right assets. This usually means accepting investment risk.115

  2. Using personal effort to increase asset value. This is what successful business owners do.

This is how wealth is built. Bill Gates started a company and grew it by personal effort.116 Warren Buffet created a new way to borrow money to buy stocks.117 And he picked the right stocks.

The concept is the same for regular people. People borrow money from others. It’s called a mortgage. They use it to buy an appreciating asset. It’s called a house. Most middle-class wealth comes this way.118

Whether middle-class or ultra-high net worth, the answer is the same: Wealth comes from owning assets that go up in value.

Wealth is a different money category

In math, a dollar is a dollar. But in story, dollars are different. The story of wealth is the story of appreciated assets. Wealth is not cash. Less than 3% of household financial wealth is held in cash or checking accounts.119

Wealth is still money. But it’s money from a different category. It’s money with a different reference point. This affects fundraising.

Gift size is relative to the money category

Asking for gifts of cash is asking from the small bucket. Asking for gifts from appreciated assets is asking from the big bucket. This difference affects the donor’s mindset.

Compared to other cash purchases, a $100,000 gift is absurdly large. The cash gift compares with coffee at Starbucks. It compares with spending from the disposable income category.

Compared to wealth holdings, a $100,000 gift may be tiny. The asset gift compares with a different category. A stock gift compares with stock holdings. A real estate gift compares with real estate holdings. Large gifts are made possible by large reference points.

Experiments: Money categories change behavior

Reminding people of their wealth changes their behavior. One experiment asked different questions from people entering a store.120

What happened? People first asked about their wealth spent over 36% more at the store. They were reminded of a different money category. That reminder changed their behavior.

Experiments: Money categories change current donations

This is an area where small gifts and large gifts work differently. For example,

One experiment illustrates this.121 People were asked about a donation pledge. It would be deducted from their monthly paychecks. But the amounts were described either as $1/$4/$7 a day or as $350/$1,400/$2,500 a year. Changing the description format changed the comparisons. For example,

For the smallest ask, the daily amount worked better. It was a trivial ask from a trivial category. It’s just “pennies a day.”

But for anything over $1,000, the result reversed. Gifting doubled when using the annual, rather than the daily, amount. The “pennies-a-day” story worked, but only for pennies. Big gifts needed big reference points.

Experiments: Money categories change future donations

The “pennies-a-day” story creates another problem. A small reference point makes future giving small.

In one experiment, workers had a gift made on their behalf.123 For some it was donated in small daily segments. For others, it was given in one lump sum. After this, everyone had the chance to make their own gift. People whose previous gifts had been broken into small amounts acted differently. They gave about a third less.

Why did this happen? Further questions showed the answer. People used previous giving as the reference point for their donation. When previous giving had been made in small segments, it felt smaller. This smaller reference point led to smaller donations.

But there was a solution. Showing the total of prior gifts before making the ask worked. It made the small segment gifts feel larger. This larger reference point increased donations almost 50%.124 For bigger gifts, we need bigger reference points.

Another experiment found a similar result.125 When prior gifts were described in total terms, people gave more. If they were described in monthly terms, people gave less.

Describing past giving as several small gifts is a small-reference-point story. Describing it as a single large total is a large-reference-point story. Choosing a larger reference point changes the giving behavior.

Another experiment showed this in a different way.126 It tested six mailings to over 50,000 people. The top-performing headline was,

“CAMPAIGN DONOR FOR ___ YEARS

Your most generous gift was $___. Thank you.”

This sets a reference point of the donor’s largest gift. It also emphasizes the length of the relationship. It reminds the donor that they’re the kind of person who makes these gifts – especially large ones.

Real world: A money category question

Which gift is more valuable:

The charity CFO will prefer the check. It’s easier. Gifts of assets are a hassle. The charity has to retitle them. The charity has to sell them.

The donor’s financial advisor will prefer the stock. Giving stock avoids capital gains taxes. It’s cheaper for the donor.

Which gift should the fundraiser prefer? The gift of stock. If the fundraiser cares about the donor, the answer is already obvious. One gift costs the donor less. That’s the gift the donor should make.

But there’s another reason: categories matter. If gifting comes from a tiny category, future gifting stays tiny. If the same gift comes from a big category, future gifting can become big.

A checking account is where disposable income lives. Disposable-income gifts come from the small category. This keeps future gifts small.

Appreciated assets is where wealth lives. Asset gifts come from the big category. Asset gifts can lead to transformational donations.

Real world: Money categories and “mental accounting”

In math, a dollar is a dollar. In story, people put labels on money. They then treat the dollars differently based on those labels.127 In experiments, when a new category of money becomes donation relevant, giving increases.128

Suppose a person gives furniture or clothes to a charity shop for the first time. From that point forward, the category becomes donation relevant. Whenever redecorating happens, charity comes to mind.

Suppose a person gives shares of stock for the first time. They learn that capital gains taxes are avoidable. From that point forward, the category becomes donation relevant. Whenever a sale is contemplated, charity comes to mind.

Real world: Money categories and fundraising success

Experiments and theory are fine. But how powerful is this in the real world? An analysis of over a million nonprofit tax returns showed the answer.129

Raising money from noncash assets predicts current and future fundraising success. This was true for every charitable cause. It was true for every charity size. And the difference was massive.

Consider this comparison. Suppose there were two otherwise identical charities. Both raised the same amount of contributions in year one. But there was a difference. One had raised these gifts only from cash. The other had raised gifts from both cash and stocks.

Fast-forward five years. What was different about the cash-and-stocks charity? It’s total contributions, on average, grew twice as fast. One little fact doubled fundraising growth. Doubled!

This is a big deal. This isn’t just academic theory. This isn’t just a little experiment. This is years of data from most American nonprofits. This is as “real world” as it gets. And the difference is massive.

Real world: How to start

Fundraisers can start by sharing stories. These can be stories of others like the donor who have made gifts of assets. Donor stories can include stocks, bonds, real estate, or businesses.130

In conversation, this might begin with saying, “I help our donors give smarter.” When asked for an explanation, the fundraiser can share a story that teaches.

Marketing materials can regularly teach the benefits of such gifts. (Of course, fundraisers should also educate themselves.)131

Fundraisers can also listen. They can listen for upcoming financial events. A sale, a retirement, an inheritance can all be times when charitable planning works well. By learning, listening, and sharing, fundraisers can become a valuable advisor for donors. They can also change the donor’s mindset.

Mindset matters

Most donors think of donations as something that comes from regular disposable income. Gifts come from “pocket change.” These donors will give small. They will give small today. They will give small tomorrow.

But if a donor begins to think of donations as something that comes from wealth, things change. These donors will give big. They will give big today. They will give even bigger tomorrow.

The transformational estate gift

Legacy gifts are transformational. They can be transformational for the charity because of their size. For people worth over $2 million, estate giving averages 20, 50, or 100 years of their annual giving.132 This multiple increases with increasing wealth. Legacy gifts from the wealthy can be enormous.

But legacy gifts are also transformational for the donor. Current giving increases dramatically after adding charity to an estate plan. Annual donations jump over 75%.133 These are the same donors before and after. They just behave differently after changing their estate plans. Even eight years later, this higher level of giving persists.

Why does this happen? An estate gift is a gift from wealth, not disposable income. For many, putting charity in their will is their first commitment to donate from their wealth, rather than from their disposable income. This first gift from wealth can be transformational for the donor. It mentally reclassifies their wealth as donation relevant. This changes the reference point for donations. It opens the way for larger donations in the future.

Conclusion

The key to fundraising growth is changing the donor’s mindset. That starts by understanding the secret: Major gifts are gifts of wealth, not disposable income.